On more thing I've noticed too, at least on this forum and another that I frequent, is that other members tend to be more welcoming and helpful to those members that they get to know and chat with, more than those members that simply come on a forum, and post mostly topics that are just asking for help, useless replies to topics, etc (those do not necessarily refer to you, but it doesn't help my willingness t help when I see your screen-name and the first thought is "oh, the guy that joined to get help for his game" ~ as in, that's what to at least one member, you're remembered for).
You seem like you could have a good idea in your head, but you should work on explaining things more completely, and participating more so we get to know you. I know I'm more comfortable helping people that I don't think just joined a site only to get help.