'Relationships', and the maturity of people as a whole

Started by Seox, June 13, 2009, 11:07:36 pm

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Vell

I run better on the tips of my toes, and find that it works my muscles better to do so. so every so often I go an entire walking one foot on the tips of my toes, and the other not. the only strange thing about what I wear is that I only wear sweats. can't stand the feel of anythign else(though i am occassionally forced to wear jeans or khakis, so I miraculously found a couple pairs of each that feel like sweats. GO ME!)

Seox

XD, I have a VERY strange walk. It scares the PISS out of people. Closest thing I can relate it to is "gangster" like, even though I HATE that genre. It's very....poised. I walk FIRMLY on my heel for stability, with bent knees, so that my heart doesn't have to work harder to pump blood to my lower extremities, giving me more energy. My head is down and a little forwards, to protect the throat and take full advantage of cephalization. My wrists are turned slightly outwards, allowing the solid bones and tougher skin of the upside of my forearm to face forwards, so that, if attacked from the front, I can quickly use my arms to repel anything up to knife blows. This means that, effectively, the only area which is "easy" to attack is my core, which is defended by my hands. This walk intimidates EVERYONE. Some people laugh at it, but I theorize that that is just so that they don't openly admit that they're....unnerved.

However, I know no other way to walk. Walking "normally" doesn't feel like it should, not in that it isn't habit, but more in that I don't think I'm walking "correctly", correctly.

When I cross an open room, the denser, the more intensely felt, I feel RIDICULOUSLY conscious of my "walk", and it makes me feel....judged. It's hell.


I LOOOOOOVE militaries, worldwide. Not for any specific reason. I guess it's the testosterone. I can probably name most all commonly sighted MBR (Main battle rifles) of most developed nations, as well as the style and cartridge. I can also tell you that the PSG-1 is an anti-terrorist sniper rifle produced by H&K, chambering the 7.62 x 51 mm NATO, equivalent, roughly, to the .308. This is a heavy rifle round. The rifle is one of the finest in the world, utilizing a free floating barrel, among other things, to give it the accuracy of a bolt action in a semi-automatic package.....

Blahblah blah. *Spares you the misery*

And that's just one weapon. I know MANY, MANY weapons.


And that leads me to MY iffy wear.

Camouflage.

Very rarely, I'll wear a full uniform (My favorite is my TRU-urban digital), but, FAR more often, I just wear my combat boots and the jacket to a uniform, with the sleeves rolled up. Oh yeah. With other clothes, XD. Not naked.


Point being, militaristic ends are one of my "aspie focuses", and I wear and walk combat. Yeah.


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EDIT: But anyone and everyone who knows, or has even SPOKEN to me, comments on my incredibly "gentleman" demeanor. I try to be polite. It works.

Point being, sure, one could claim that because I scare everyone crapless, I also scare away any potential admirers. But I think that when I hear people behind me in class whispering about how I'm intimidating at first, but RIDICULOUSLY "sweet", and I don't even know their NAMES, I must make an impression.

Seriously. It gets to the point that, halfway through this past school year, in the lunch line, when I was paying, the lunch lady stopped me and told me that a few other lunchladies and herself wanted me to know that I am, quote "The 'sweetest' and most polite person to go through the line everyday.'

Meh.
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Vell

oh yeah, I remembered. I always have my weight shifted on to one leg or the other when standing. my hands are most often in my pockets, and I actually can walk very fast(slow run speed) while appearing to walk normally. I walk faster than I jog. I have incredible balance, considering i've never practiced it at all. I never stand normally. when I try to stand straight the middle of my back feels all weird. my back is Never straight. two of the discs are messed up, or somethin.

Seox

Quote from: UltaFlame on June 15, 2009, 04:50:08 pm
oh yeah, I remembered.[...] , and I actually can walk very fast(slow run speed) while appearing to walk normally. I walk faster than I jog. [...] I never stand normally. when I try to stand straight the middle of my back feels all weird. my back is Never straight. two of the discs are messed up, or somethin.

All of those, I am, too. I walk at the speed of SOUND, zipping between people in the halls at school. I outRUN other walkers, who tell me to slow up...XD. This IS slow, for me. Of course, all of that has equated to my being able to jog 1 and a half miles without stopping.

So, if you don't mind my asking, how old are you, and are you male, or female? I had NO IDEA that another aspie was here...it's kinda cool, given that I've never spoken to another one, before. The similarities are really strange and amazing, at the same time.
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Vell

I'm not very physically fit, so I can't jog anything like that... but I'm prolly best walker i know. I know several other aspies, so I know what you're talkin about. however, I'm also paranoid, famously. I don't give out personal info, so I can't answer your questions.

Seox

Quote from: UltaFlame on June 15, 2009, 05:00:44 pm
I'm not very physically fit, so I can't jog anything like that... but I'm prolly best walker i know. I know several other aspies, so I know what you're talkin about. however, I'm also paranoid, famously. I don't give out personal info, so I can't answer your questions.

Fair enough ^_^. I was just curious to know, given the degree of the similarities, how you compared physiologically. Sorry ><

Yeah, I have entertained paranoia. Meaning I intentionally act it. ACT IT!!!! XD.

It's part of m-

Oh my god, a spetsnazian operative trained in CQC and assassination just jumped into the window behind you!

It's just part of my randomness, but it's over the top and intentionally crazy.


EDIT:

So, anyways, back on topic (A bit:)

Psychologically, when do you people decide that they "like someone?" When they see them, have spoken to them, or etc...?

ENSUE DEBATE!!!

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Valcos

For me I usually gain an interest when I see them. If they have a unique something about their look that I like. Then if I talk to them, and I like their personality... I guess I like them then xD. But, liking someone really isnt a big thing. From my experience, "liking someone" doesnt last very long, unless you that like grows to something more.
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Seox

Quote from: Valcos on June 16, 2009, 12:32:22 pm
For me I usually gain an interest when I see them. If they have a unique something about their look that I like. Then if I talk to them, and I like their personality... I guess I like them then xD. But, liking someone really isnt a big thing. From my experience, "liking someone" doesnt last very long, unless you that like grows to something more.


Hmmm....Interesting. Thank you ^_^

I'm really curious because of the way that I walk and "put off." Like I said, it can scare people, and so I think that that may turn away any potential admirers, even though if they just talked to me they'd see that I are teh uber nice.

It's really a pity, because I don't know how to walk, otherwise. It sounds simple ; it's not. So I'm STUCK in this...whatever. I wish I could know whether or not people around me DO/DID like me, because I have no way of knowing, and since noone tries to show it, I am left to assume that, for some reason, noone likes/has liked/will like me.

Meh. I agree with you completely on the fact that liking someone doesn't last long. In some situations, it seems to be capable of lasting, but, usually, after the person has "hooked a fish", unless they respond, pulling the rod up and reeling in, the fish gets off the hook. (If that made sense, metaphorically.)
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Valcos

When I really like someone... like alot, its weird, I dont get "aroused" by anyone else but that person :shy:. And even then, its not like when i think of the person, thats all i think about. Its usually the second thing i think about xD.
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Seox

Quote from: Valcos on June 16, 2009, 01:33:20 pm
:shy:. And even then, its not like when i think of the person, thats all i think about. Its usually the second thing i think about xD.


I don't understand what you mean when you say that it's usually the second thing you do...Could you please elaborate? I'm very interested in what you're saying ^_^
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fugibo

Quote from: Seox on June 16, 2009, 02:19:29 pm
Quote from: Valcos on June 16, 2009, 01:33:20 pm
:shy:. And even then, its not like when i think of the person, thats all i think about. Its usually the second thing i think about xD.


I don't understand what you mean when you say that it's usually the second thing you do...Could you please elaborate? I'm very interested in what you're saying ^_^


Val failed that post. But I believe what she was trying to say is, "Sex isn't the first thing on my mind."

Seox

Quote from: Longfellow on June 16, 2009, 06:15:27 pm
Quote from: Seox on June 16, 2009, 02:19:29 pm
Quote from: Valcos on June 16, 2009, 01:33:20 pm
:shy:. And even then, its not like when i think of the person, thats all i think about. Its usually the second thing i think about xD.


I don't understand what you mean when you say that it's usually the second thing you do...Could you please elaborate? I'm very interested in what you're saying ^_^


Val failed that post. But I believe what she was trying to say is, "Sex isn't the first thing on my mind."


Thanks ^_^. Definitely makes sense now, just wasn't clear as to what she was refering to by "it".

Any other opinions?
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fugibo

Well, I kinda detest other people. Particularly the Seox type, but as long as you have your tongue in cheek or similar while complementing people for no reason I'm okay with it. Of course, this leads to people hating me (especially when I publicly ridicule them for their idiocy), so I haven't any relationships. I find people who do have them to be rather boring and uninteresting while around their SO. It's very saddening.

Also, Meena.

Valcos

Quote from: Longfellow on June 16, 2009, 06:15:27 pm
Quote from: Seox on June 16, 2009, 02:19:29 pm
Quote from: Valcos on June 16, 2009, 01:33:20 pm
:shy:. And even then, its not like when i think of the person, thats all i think about. Its usually the second thing i think about xD.


I don't understand what you mean when you say that it's usually the second thing you do...Could you please elaborate? I'm very interested in what you're saying ^_^


Val failed that post. But I believe what she was trying to say is, "Sex isn't the first thing on my mind."


Yeah, more or less that. Like, I dont want to just get it on with that person... I want to have a functioning relationship and stuff. :^_^':
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Seox

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Blizzard

Quote from: Longfellow on June 16, 2009, 07:32:01 pm
Well, I kinda detest other people. Particularly the Seox type, but as long as you have your tongue in cheek or similar while complementing people for no reason I'm okay with it. Of course, this leads to people hating me (especially when I publicly ridicule them for their idiocy), so I haven't any relationships. I find people who do have them to be rather boring and uninteresting while around their SO. It's very saddening.

Also, Meena.


Depends. I know many people who are in relationships, yet they are alright. Most of them don't change at all while in a relationship.
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Valcos

I noticed that... one of the people in the relationship starts to become "WHIIIPPPPEEDDDD!!!!!" by the other person. It may not be because they are pansy, but, they may just like that person that much they just do what they say all the time  :^_^':
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Seox

Quote from: Valcos on June 17, 2009, 09:30:11 am
I noticed that... one of the people in the relationship starts to become "WHIIIPPPPEEDDDD!!!!!" by the other person. It may not be because they are pansy, but, they may just like that person that much they just do what they say all the time  :^_^':


XD, I would probably do the latter, because of the fact that, in my crazy idealistic intentions, I would always attempt to give my "best" to my partner (NO NOT A SEXUAL STATEMENT, I mean as far as mood.). And that's putting it lightly. That, combined with my intentions to STAY romantic with her would mean that it's less of an "Oh, ok, let's do it...", and more of a "HELLZ YEAH!"

Point being, there's no reason that either of us would HAVE to be teh voluntary slave, because we'd both want to, anyways. And because I'll care about her, I'd gladly listen to and follow along with what she says - doesn't mean I'd like to be ORDERED AROUND ALL DAY, but you get my point. I think I will fall in with the latter, but only to a degree.


So, what do you guys think ruin most relationships, short term and long, suddenly and slowly?

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Short term, suddenly? Cheating.
Long term, slowly? The dying of any romance. It's no longer a courtship type atmosphere. It's a "Meh." Kinda thing.


Of course, PLEASE be more descriptive. XD. I'm interested in hearing the details behind this stuff.
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Seox

Quote from: Longfellow on June 17, 2009, 01:22:04 pm
Boredom.


As a result of?

I'd assume the other person's ceasing to attempt to "woo" them. I've heard that quite often. So how does one keep a fresh "bag of tricks?" (Gee, that didn't sound at all sexual, gay, or just plain strange >.>)
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