Intelligence, Sanity, and Beauty - Personal Opinions

Started by Calintz, June 12, 2009, 11:57:26 pm

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Calintz

Here, please discuss your PERSONAL thoughts about each ...

@Dio: I love debates
I am bringing this here, because I wanna hear everything you have to say, and because I don't further want this to continue in Blizzard's thread, because it is a separate topic. You say you are just laying down logic to think about, but then you blurt the profanity and make your statement. You won't be reasoned with. You act upon biased logic.

You say you could learn to love a hideous person. I say there are lines of extremity that everybody has that they will not cross when it comes to beauty. If you can stand here and tell me that there is absolutely nobody on this entire earth that you could never love, simply because of their physical appearance, then you sir ... are lying.

As I said, there ARE lines of extremity. There are people on this earth that you can look at, and just think ... "DA**!!." That person is ugly. I'm not trying to be mean, but it's true. That however, is decided solely by the person judging. There are people on this earth, that you will think are so ugly, that you don't want anything to do with them. But let's say you give them that chance Dio ... you let them in.

You can learn to love who they are. Learn to love their personality. They can grow on you yes, and you can learn to love them, but without that physical connection, can you truly have an intimate relationship?? Be honest with yourself. You can become the best friend in the whole world!! with that person, but you may never fall for them, because they just are not physically appealing enough to you. I'm sure even you have friends like that Dio. I'm damn near positive that you have friends that you would NEVER want to be in a serious relationship with, all the while, they are some of your best friends ever!!

There is some logic for you to think about. It's hard, it's mean, but it's true. It's as you would say ... it's reality.

Diokatsu

So I'm guessing that beauty has broken down into anything above the line of general disgust? Well, I'm fine now. Bored really. I see what you're trying to say, and what you've been trying to say, but I disagree with them on a level that maybe only I've experienced between the two of us. It's all good.

Calintz

June 13, 2009, 12:49:03 am #2 Last Edit: June 13, 2009, 12:50:42 am by Calintz16438
My whole point was not to say that people can't change or grow on you during a relationship, or even that physical connections can't grow, because I know that they can, and I believe that they do. I was trying to say that physical appearances are important and nothing else.

A person needs to appeal to you in one form or another which means that it's a must when making your choice. I'm not saying that you can't meet a average woman on the street and not fall in love, because god knows it happens all the time. Hell, I could fall in love with a girl I did not believe to be beautiful per say, and still make love to her, because she will still be a beautiful person in my heart and in my mind. So long as she has physical qualities that appeal to me in at least one way, I can physically lust for her. I'm speaking on a very BASIC level here.

When Blizzard asks us to choose between the three options, I can only think rationally. A person has to appeal on a general level, and she has to be sane. Without those two, I personally find it would be too difficult to hold it together for a lifetime. Intelligence on the other hand isn't something I view as a necessity which is why I dropped it.

I do apologize if I offended anybody, but these are personal views. I just try to think rationally. Though I am always open for conversation, because I like to bring a rational side to every opinion.

IDK ...
Everything is cool, I love my life, and I hope you guys love your lives ...

Nothing will change, this is just some infinitesimal bickering that aroused a gentle brouhaha ... :P
We can lock this if nobody else has opinions, but I encourage everyone to share.

Vell

it is my opinion that looks don't matter. you will love who you love, and they will be beautiful for that. there. short, sweet, pointed. a daggers-edge.

Blizzard

That's almost exactly what a friend of mine said. And she simply can't grow up.

@Calintz:

Quote from: Blizzard on June 13, 2009, 09:56:42 am
@Calintz: I know that it's POSSIBLE (even though extremely hard) to find a women featuring all three qualities, but that isn't the point. I don't even know what you are doing in this thread. You seem to have found one of these rare gems so GTFO. :D


I really don't think you should discuss any of this. :/ It doesn't matter to you anyway. Why bother?
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fugibo

Dear god, I've never had such a reason to post this:

tl;dr|c

(guess what "|c" means [bitwise is equivalent to logic in this scenario] to win 3 free cookies!)

Diokatsu

Personal opinion? SCREW YOU.

Lol.

Really I've said everything I need to. Everything is relative!

fugibo

Quote from: Diokatsu on June 13, 2009, 05:04:06 pm
Personal opinion? SCREW YOU.

Lol.

Really I've said everything I need to. Everything is relative!

Ha, Einstien beat you by over half a century!

Calintz

@Blizzard:
Because my opinions and process of elimination earned me my diamond in the rough, and I would like to share my process, because if even one of the young-ins here at the forums benefits from my life experience, then I would be happy, IDK.

**And I like to debate, keeps me on my toes.

Diokatsu

Quote from: WcW on June 13, 2009, 06:57:06 pm
Quote from: Diokatsu on June 13, 2009, 05:04:06 pm
Personal opinion? SCREW YOU.

Lol.

Really I've said everything I need to. Everything is relative!

Ha, Einstien beat you by over half a century!

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU. T_T

fugibo

@whoever notices my "misspelling:" Einstien Einstein is the little-known brother of Einstein, who, upon hearing his brother speak one morning after tea, exclaimed: "Aha! Now I get it! Everything is relative!"

Calintz


Blizzard

Quote from: Calintz on June 13, 2009, 07:48:03 pm
@Blizzard:
Because my opinions and process of elimination earned me my diamond in the rough, and I would like to share my process, because if even one of the young-ins here at the forums benefits from my life experience, then I would be happy, IDK.


Not everybody is the same and there is no universal way to happiness. I have recently realized that happiness is different for everybody. Some (twisted) people are happy when they think they are better than everybody else. Some are happy when having a partner. Others again are happy when they do for living what they like. It's complicated.

In any case it's good if you share your experience, but I think coming across one person you wanna spend the rest of your life with is pretty much pure luck. :/
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